When she stops caring

In conversation with some female acquaintances, we tumbled upon the subject of when does a girl stop caring about her boyfriend/husband. It was evident that a lot of the women were quite enthusiastic about the topic and rushed to contribute their complaints. It was obvious that many of them had genuine complaints of emotional turmoil which seemed endless while others concentrated on specifics. The conversation was very fruitful with many stopping to show they care at minor mistakes such as forgetting taking the bin out or forgetting to put the toilet seat down. Others portrayed much more tolerance, concentrating more on the emotional connections, affection, sharing and understanding they had with their partner. So what is the stage at which a girl genuinely stops caring and more importantly does it make any difference to the male involved? Below I have complied a list which show a general theme of the subject rather than specifics.

1. She will not try to catch your attention because yesterday she was someone special for you and today she is nobody to you.
2. She will not fight for you anymore because you no longer listen or understand her.
3. She won’t reply to your message as quickly anymore because she is tired of trying so hard all the time and she is tired of waiting.
4. She won’t try to keep the conversation going anymore because she has lost all hope that you’ll understand or listen.
5. She will not care anymore because you never showed her that you care.
6. She’s no longer jealous because you never put her mind at rest that she is the only one for you.
7. She no longer cares if you care or not anymore because she never received your care, love and affection when she needed it.
8. She’s no longer goes to your profile and whine to people about how happy you’re, talking to other girls because she knows she means nothing to you.
9. She will stop caring when she is does not receive the respect she once expected from you.
10. She will stop caring when you no longer try and make up with her after a fight.
11. She will stop caring when you insult her and belittle her because she knows she doesn’t deserve that.
12. She will give up on trying to make you love her, because she finally realises that she will not receive the love she wanted, needed and expected from you and you will miss her.

Miss the way she cared about you.
Miss the way she loved you. And you have lost her heart and love.

So don’t take any girls for granted gentleman, if you love her, let her know before she gives up !!

Best wishes,
Maahi PM


A Note……

Apni bebasi par aaj rona sa aaya
Doosron ko nahi maine apno ko azmaaya
Har dost ki tanhaayi door ki
Lekin khud ko har morh par tanha hi paya..!

Today I felt of cried at my helplessness
I tested my loved ones not strangers
I rid my friends of their loneliness
But at every turn of my life I always found myself alone!

Best Wishes,
Maahi PM

A Prayer

Har Har Mahadev!

Hai Bholenath,

Thank you for your mercy and continued showering of blessing upon me everyday.

Thank you for granting me the strength to endure this terrible discomfort at this stage in my life.

Hai Mahadev, stay with me in whatever manner you can for I am in need of your presence and your guidance.

Hai Shiv Shumbhu grant me the ability to stabilise my mind, my thoughts, my tears and my pain.

Oh Digambar, in this time of distress, disillusionment and disappointment grant me the ability to follow a righteous path.

Hai Kailashnath, I pray for your blessings and guidance in this moment of loneliness. I pray to you for relief from the many discomforts and worries that prevent me from normal sleep.

Help me to call on you when in pain instead of moaning in self pity. I put myself entirely in your precious hands.

Please hear my prayer and grant my needs according to your will.

Om Namah Shivaya!